B10:38
Two of my teammates were stuck over a small issue.
Two of my teammates were stuck over a small issue.
One wanted to change the deadline; the other did not.
One wanted to change the deadline; the other did not.
I said, 'I hear both sides on this.'
I said, 'I hear both sides on this.'
That seemed to calm the tension right away.
That seemed to calm the tension right away.
Then I asked, 'What if we tried a short delay?'
Then I asked, 'What if we tried a short delay?'
I offered to help with the extra work.
I offered to help with the extra work.
They both looked at me and then at each other.
They both looked at me and then at each other.
Finally, the first teammate nodded slowly.
Finally, the first teammate nodded slowly.
The second one said, 'Okay, I can live with that.'
The second one said, 'Okay, I can live with that.'
I asked, 'Can we both live with that?'
I asked, 'Can we both live with that?'
They agreed, and we moved on.
They agreed, and we moved on.
I felt quietly proud of that moment.
I felt quietly proud of that moment.
Helping two teammates find common ground
by @noah_95